I hear you! :D My hair is the same length as yours. I'm growing it out a little bit, just to have some more options. Curls take the length up, and all of that.
I ended up giving up trying to find "bridal hair" photos because it was next to impossible. I figured I'd go with a tiara and veil that looks like the third picture I posted, then looked around for short formal hair... still not a lot of that out there, but I came up with a few things I liked.
Another thing I read somewhere was that if you hair is being worn down, and is a style that has a fair amount of volume to it (lots of curls, for example) you might want to go with a very short veil - longer ones will be heavy and can squash your hair at the back. Apparently. :)
Anyway, photos...

This is the style I think I've decided on - just with looser curls. This photo looks a little too helmet like for me!

Yeah, Kelly Osbourne wasn't someone I thought I'd have on file as having hair I liked, but I think it looks pretty good there.

That looks effortless but nice, I think. Wish my hair would do that by itself...

A little bit shorter, but I kind of like this one. Any of those four I think would like fine with a wide comb or headband style of tiara.
The next two don't have a tiara per se, but I thought they were nice styles, particularly the last one...

I saw a similar photo with a couple of little crystal flowers instead of a real flower, and it looked really nice too.

I love this one! If my face wasn't so long and skinny, I'd want to go with this style.
Anyway, that's some more ideas, and just about all of the short hairstyles I've managed to find!
Good luck!