So the wedding went off without a hitch and fun was had by all ( got married to my best friend yesterday 8/6). We had 9 people that didnt bother to show up even though they sent back the RSVP with a YES, also my brother and his sister never even bothered to give so much as a card saying best wishes. What do we do, what do we say? I want to send them all thank you's with a note enclosed saying that they were missed and that their meals were paid for, I want to tell my brother that I hope he enjoyed the food and karaoke all night but a gift would have been nice. I cant go without saying something because I am pissed off that people can be so inconsiderate. Please give me some advice before I burst!!!