Hi SpanglertoBe! First of all, congratulations! I'm getting married the weekend before, Sept. 1, 2007. Did you just get engaged? I think that you just need to start dreaming about your wedding a little...what's your favorite color? Any favorite flowers? Are you and your FH formal people, or more casual? What's your style: classic, romantic, sleek and modern, hippie casual, beach casual, preppy, elegant? What's your budget (that should definitely help you narrow down ideas!)?
I'm sure you actually do have at least a couple ideas that you can start from. Have you started looking for a dress? Paged through bridal magazines? Start pulling out pictures of things that appeal to you, and hopefully you'll start seeing common threads...
You said you don't know what "type" of wedding to do. Does this mean you are looking for a more specific theme? Since your wedding (like mine!) is near the beginning of September, you could do a fall theme or you could stick to a summer feeling. I don't know where you are, but I'm in the upper Midwest, and here the beginning of September still feels like summer.
Seriously, if you haven't bought any bridal magazines yet, treat yourself to a few. They'll help! And I know the girls here have tons of ideas, too!
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