There's 3 years between me and my FH (35 me, 38 him). When I was a little girl dreaming of my future husband, I always said my ideal husband would be within 5 years of me. So my future husband is my ideal husband (in ways more than just the age.
{BTW- My first H was 16 years older than me. I had just turned 18 and he was 34. We eloped to Vegas (no I wasn't pregnant). I had always told him "I wish that I was 10 years older". I feel when you are that young, age really does make a difference. I grew up through him. One of his crass friends said once "he got his first piece of xxx before you were born". Nice, eh? We were really at different points in our lives...I just graduated High School, he was a professional with his own business. We actually met by me working for him. Like I said, I grew up through him. We got divorced after 16 years.}
I will be married longer to my future husband than I was to my first.
Go figure...
