I just wanted to see if this has happened to anyone else yet. One guest at my shower didn't bring a gift or a card, and told another guest that she "kind of felt bad" that she didn't bring anything. I acted like I didn't realize it, and will not act differently with her. However, I feel like she took advantage of the great food/ drinks that my future MIL prepared, and even left with a favor and a prize. I know that I should just be thankful that she came, but aren't showers specifically about gifts? I would have been happy with even a card or something inexpensive if she is in trouble financially.