Does size matter?

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Does size matter?
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:03 AM

Ok so this is a sex question... I was having a few cocktails with a girlfriend.. We were having "girl talk" and she was telling me that she met this hot (her words) guy.. about 2 months ago.. and since meeting him all she could is brag about how handsome he is, how's gentlemen like etc... and all the dreamy stuff you want in a man.  So moving along.. 2 months later.. she finally decided to give up the booty!  Well, let's just that she was piping mad!  She said the his pee-pee was ridicously (sp?) small.. and she tried her best not to laugh in his face!  I couldn't help but to laugh myself, not at him.. but just the way my friend was explaining her story...

I asked her if there was any way that she could look beyond this issue and get to know him further.. that there are many ways women work around this are in love with their men... she said that she felt nothing phyiscally during the deed.. and that sex is a very important part of any relationship.. while I agree with her to a certain extent.. I still feel that she should give this guy a shot.

Now, my question is does size really matter?  Can it hinder your sex life?  I know that this thread is a bit on the personal/raunchy side.. but I was curious to see what your thoughts/views were on this...... You see, I've only been with 2 men in my life.. and I lucked out with the 2 men.. So I couldn't relate to her situation...  


Message was edited by Cantwait2bmrsposy on Apr 19, 2006 10:05 AM

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totobride Posts : 641 Registered: 3/30/06
Re: Does size matter?
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:06 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

My man is on the small side, and I was a little bit put off at first, but now, I couldn't be happier.  Tell her to stick it out (in, lol), and she may be surprised.

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Guest
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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 10:16 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

A wise woman once told me, its not the size, it is how it is used. She was right.

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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:03 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

What was she expecting?!  Seriously, the others are right.  It's not the size, it's how it's used.  My guy is about average and I wouldn't want it any other way.

Besides, he may know he's not Ron Jeremy, and dollars to donuts he can do things with other parts of his body to please her.

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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:36 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

I do not think that size can really hinder your sex life, its the skills of the person that makes the difference - in my past theres been two guys who I'd say were smaller than average, and one was great in bed, and the other one, well he really sucked, lol  As the saying goes, its not the size of the boat, its the motion in the ocean. Any guy who knows how to please a woman can do it with any size tool in my opinion! :) 

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lori83 Posts : 1,852 Registered: 3/30/06
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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:46 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

Didn't even know there were different sizes..............LOL. Now you have me wondering what size my husband is.

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Guest
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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 11:49 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

I've never experienced a smaller than average guy before, so I can't really relate.  However, if I really liked the guy and saw a future with him, I would overlook his smallness.  I have heard there are ways a man can learn how to work with what he has in a pleasing manner. 

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Re: Does size matter?
Posted: Apr 19, 2006 1:28 PM Go to message in response to: Guest

Hm. I say yes AND no.

IF the guy has no other skills in pleasing a woman (i.e. FOREPLAY), or if he is inhibited by his size and it shows... then it's going to matter. 

If he can work with what he has and "supplement" with other techniques and such, no problems. I've been with both ends of the spectrum, and while greater size made it more "interesting" in certain ways, I'd say the larger guy needs even MORE skills in other areas so that the woman, can, erm.. accomodate him.

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Guest
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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 3:39 PM Go to message in response to: Guest

You know, when I saw this thread title, I thought it was going to be about the size of the invite list!

I've been with guys on both end of the spectrums.  One guy was huge, about 9 inches, and every time we had sex it was like, "Ow! My kidneys!"  There was another guy who was hung like a baby carrot and I could never tell if he was in or not (Note: Guys don't like it if you ask that.)  Needless to say, both weren't that good in bed b/c they had no other techniques nor were they interested in trying.  As most other women have said, skill makes up for size.

If your friend's guy is that great, there are other things that can be done to compensate.  There are some sex toys that can be strapped onto the penis with vibrating heads and they add a few inches.  Plus, one of the benefits of being with a smaller guy is that it's easier to perform oral sex and some positions are easier. 

I won't lie...I like anything in the 5-7 inch range.  It's nice to have some substance, but ultimately personality is much more important.  Ask your friend this--would she be mad if a guy broke up with her because of her breast size?

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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 4:20 PM Go to message in response to: Guest

My theory is "its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean"

I got to say the best "O" I ever had was from a guy with a small "member".  My exhusband was like 9" (only way i know the exact inches is because he decided to measure it) and it hurt all the time.  My FH is what i call average.  he isnt small...but he isnt big.  he is perfect for me.  So if i had to say yes or no to that question i would say from my personal experience this.  Yes size matters, the bigger it is the more it hurts :)

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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 4:58 PM Go to message in response to: Guest

I think it depends on how small, small is. 

If small means less than 6", which I think is the average, then No, it doesn't matter. 

If small is, a thumb, then yes, I think it matters.  Of course, according to Monica, that is what Clinton's is.  But, with a thumb, I think I would miss intercourse. 

I have had problems with too big, but not too small. 

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Guest
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Posted: Apr 19, 2006 6:24 PM Go to message in response to: Guest

I think this woman is incredibly shallow if she wont give him a chance based on the fact that he is small. She was interested in him before they had sex, she needs to give this poor guy a shot.

No, size doesnt matter. It is how it is used. If he knows what he is doing and pays attention to your likes/dislikes and is willing to experiment a little then it should be all good.

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Guest
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Posted: Apr 20, 2006 12:57 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

Okay, so I hate to get all uncomfortable on everyone - I'm just very uninformed. So what's really the average? What's considered small, and what's considered big? And when do you 'measure' or whatever, I mean is it when it's, well, you know, BIG, or is it when it's just normal?

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Posted: Apr 20, 2006 10:32 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

That's actually a good question.  Most people, especially men think that porn has slightly larger than average, when really they are huge.  I read a stat somewhere that 6" in length is average.  For diameter, I'd guess 1.5" - 2" is average.  Really, though, as long as it's large enough for you to feel it, and small enough to not cause pain, then it is all good. 

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NatSeptBride Posts : 888 Registered: 3/28/06
Re: Does size matter?
Posted: Apr 20, 2006 10:38 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

lol someone once said to me," it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean."  I'd have to say that in my experience which isn't much considering I've only been with 3 guys, 2 of which i was with for 2.5 yrs each and now fh.  Size does not matter. It's totally how it's used.. I mean the first time with a new guy is sometimes pretty nervewracking at first, so I say give him another chance, he was probably nervous!

I do however have to agree with Military with her comment on the bigger it is the more it hurts!!

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