I have an etiquette gift question. I just read the posts on getting gifts for the parents, I was planning on getting my parents something b/c they are helping us out substantially with the reception. However, my FH's parents really aren't doing anything to help out, they don't have much money and really haven't offered to do anything. Are we still required to present them with a gift? I saw someone else was paying for the lodging for their parents, so if anything that might be a good option for us to do, but if I get something nice for my parents, what are the rules for his parents?