I went to build-a-bear on the weekend and made my flower girl a bride bear. it's so fun!!! I am giving it to her now, because i always miss my cousins birthdays, and want to get her excited about being a part of everything. I think I'll get her a charm bracelet for her actual gift, and if I can find the precious moments her parents gave me when i was their flower girl I am going to send it back to their house (1-i hate precious moments (lol), and 2-it's her turn).
I am also looking at storybooks about being a flower girl. I read a review for the new babar one, but it's sold out in my area, i got one from the library "Nadia's Hands" to check out but it wasn't very good, it did a bad job at talking about the mendhi custom.