okay I know that most preachers ( or whatever you wish to call them) do not ask for anything or do not charge but a donation is nice. I have two questions 1) what is the "right" amount to give? 2) if you wanted you could buy him a gift to show you are very thankful? The oreacher that is marrying me and Tommy I love!!! We are having to do the counseling and he has helped us out alot more than we thought we needed. So Iwas going to give him money for marrying us bu tI would like to get him like a gift card or something to say I am really thankfull for everyhting in between that he done. Any ideas or do you think this is dumb?