please help me find something that will work. I have been with my man for a year and a half and plan to marry him 9-2-06 and since we have been together I have not had to get a job, I am used to working 2-3 jobs at a time. That always kept me thin since we met I have gained at least thirty pounds (I refuse to step on a scale) I try to exercise and it never seems to work. Carbs are my best friends and I can't let them go what weight loss program will work for me? I did weigh 135 and I am 5'9''