I just got married last year on Valentine's Day. It was my first wedding and his second. Him and his previous wife did the Vegas Wedding and then had a church ceremony for family and friends when they returned. I wanted this big lavish wedding, but he seemed bummed about the whole thing. He wasn't interested in helping me make plans or anything. Finally I just had to sit down and express myself of the pain it was causing me. Hearing about their wedding and details drove me nuts! They were so happy-YUCK! The point is- it's in the past, let it go! My husband understood my frustration and knows that I don't want to hear about it. After our talk he perked up and started helping me.