I have a four year old son, but have never been married before. My grandparents are kind of pitching a fit about me wanting to wear a white/off white dress since I have a child and am obviously not a virgin - they are very old south traditional. I still feel like I should be able to wear a white/off white dress if I want to though. For me, and for my fiance. It's our one and only wedding, you know? I want to have the weddding I always dreamed of regardless of my having a child. Do you guys think it would be innapropriate for me to wear white/off white (most likely ivory)?