We have asked our guests to pay for their own meals in lieu of gifts which is $26pp but to some people I have spoken to, they have asked us what we would like for a gift. We haven't sent the invites out yet and I was wondering if it would be too rude to still have a gift registry for those who would still like to get a gift.If so how would I word this.I'm not really comfortable with a gift registry but as we are already set up in our home i'd rather do it this way.