I hate my engagement ring. I don't like the setting or the diamond. Everyone says, "well at least you have one." I waited TEN YEARS for a ring that I do not like at all. I told my fiance a million times what I wanted. He said that at the jewelry store he couldn't remember what I wanted so he just got whatever he thought would be good. He couldn't have waited and asked my friends or family? He basically got me a ring that looks like everyone else's. I literally know three people who have the same ring. If he knows me at all, he would know that I like to be different. And what is worse is that I am pretty sure he knows that I don't like it and he doesn't seem to care! What am I supposed to do if I don't even want to wear it? I do feel awful for feeling this way but I can't help that I even hesitate to show it to people because I just don't like it.