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chrissybear90 Posts : 35 Registered: 2/27/10
Not feeling the stress!
Posted: Oct 25, 2010 11:17 AM

So we're less than two weeks away and so far I've heard from like 50 people that now is the time that FH and I would be feeling the stress. We also were told that we would be bickering at each other all the time. Both of my cousin's who have gotten married in the last month have said that as well. While there have been a few moments of stress with the dress shop(lost my dress) and family members,we've been through a lot together. This is nothing compared to what was thrown our way! A little issue with a bakery isn't going to break us.We really don't feel stressed or worried,we both have said that we are just ready to be married and are excited. Is it weird that we're not freaking out?

Edited by: chrissybear90 on Oct 25, 2010 11:17 AM

I'm your girl and your my man and were making plans,

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auntofthebride Posts : 9,357 Registered: 4/2/06
Re: Not feeling the stress!
Posted: Oct 25, 2010 1:07 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

Dear Chrissy,

" Is it weird that we're not freaking out?"

No, but it is weird that people are trying to make you freak out.

Just ignore the negativity.

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WellWisher Posts : 175 Registered: 1/2/10
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Posted: Oct 25, 2010 9:55 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

You're not nervous? Guess you've made the right decision :) enjoy this time and I hope you continue to be stress free!

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chrissybear90 Posts : 35 Registered: 2/27/10
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Posted: Oct 26, 2010 12:49 AM Go to message in response to: WellWisher

I'm not nervous at all! I know that FH and I are meant to be! Everything just fits and I'm happy. Even when things are bad we handle it and walk through it together. I have no doubts.

AOTB- I never thought about it like that. I guess maybe they just want drama. Kinda funny when they are dealing with as close to drama free people as can be.

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PharmToxGirl Posts : 5,462 Registered: 8/30/07
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Posted: Oct 26, 2010 12:11 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

I wasn't nervous about the wedding, who I was marrying or any of that. I was a little stressed about the wedding until a month out - when I decided I just didn't give a damn about the flowers, dresses, who's hair was what....etc. Because I was marrying the man I love.

Now, at the wedding and some the day of OTHER PEOPLE stressed me out and I finally told them it would happen when it was supposed to and I couldn't control the behavior of other adults so I was getting back on the dance floor.

Again - OTHERS created the drama and I wanted NO part of it. LOL

Don't let others stress you out - even for a split second. :-)

 

 

 

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RebeccaFazzio Posts : 323 Registered: 10/28/07
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Posted: Oct 26, 2010 10:44 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

Hey!

I got married on October 10 and I was not stressed at all. No one tried to freak me out by saying, "Oh I was so nervous and stressed out..."

I was excited and a million other feelings but stressed out and nervous was not included!

However, I had tons of acquantances/strangers ask "So, how nervous are you?!"

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CheetahAngel Posts : 2,017 Registered: 11/29/08
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Posted: Oct 27, 2010 12:00 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

I was nervous leading up to the day but it was more nerves like things that needed to get done in time kinda nerves. I was also nervous about crying at the ceremony or fainting or something lol. I tend to worry a lot about things lol. But I am so surprised that I was not nervous the day of the wedding! I was actually calm! I felt mostly excited and happy and yes I did cry but that was nothing to be nervous about.

So don't feel odd that you don't feel nervous. It's a good thing that you don't :)

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onlyone1147 Posts : 13 Registered: 10/12/11
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Posted: Oct 12, 2011 5:27 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

lucky girl!lol

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jamesbernard Posts : 2 Registered: 5/17/12
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Posted: May 17, 2012 1:29 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

You shouldn't freaked out at all. There is nothing for which you need to feel kinda weird. Some people feel stress but not all people are equal in this matter. So stay cool

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NiamhMaire Posts : 95 Registered: 6/7/12
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Posted: Jun 8, 2012 11:20 AM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

It's great to hear that you have no worries. Everyone is different so don't listen to the people who tell you how you should act before the wedding - just be yourself.

It seems like you've made a great decision and I wish you the best.

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EncoreDT Posts : 117 Registered: 5/29/12
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Posted: Jun 20, 2012 6:19 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

To me it means that you're doing something right! Stressing and panicking two weeks (or ESPECIALLY the night before) the wedding will only make things worse. We had some stress too, but everyone was telling us that "you guys will get cold feet" and so forth...we barely blinked an eye. And, of course, as a result of our mindset, our wedding was A LOT OF FUN! Hope yours was too...


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summmerjojo Posts : 334 Registered: 4/25/12
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Posted: Jul 23, 2012 10:37 PM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

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Posted: Sep 15, 2012 12:59 AM Go to message in response to: chrissybear90

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