Hey Girls, I am having a destination wedding, just my fiance and myself. My sister and friend want to throw me a shower but I just feel it is not right because we are not going to be having anyone with us at our wedding. I know they want to throw me a shower cuz they say that I deserve one but I just feel as though people may thinkg "wow she isn't even inviting us to the wedding yet we are invited to the shower" and I dont want people to feel as though they have to bring anything especially because we are not really having a wedding it will be just the two of us. Is this common upon people who elope or have small destination weddings? What do you girls think?