Anyone out there planning a September 2012 Wedding? I'm from southern NJ and I recently got engaged, actually less than a week before I deployed, I'm currently serving in Iraq for the next year. I want to have a general idea of what I want as far as ceremony location, reception location, theme, colors, etc... There's so much information on the internet but I can't seem to pick the theme/colors for my wedding. I'm personally torn between two things. The first being a classy old new york style wedding, with most likely black, white, silver, or red for my colors. The second is a later reception so it's darker outside, candles everywhere, classy, mainly white with the flowers bringing in all the colors, kind of like a midnight garden theme.