I am having a battle within myself as to whether or not I should ask a friend to in my wedding party. We have been friends since high school and I was the maid of honor in her wedding earlier this summer, but her moodiness is unpredictable and half the time planning her wedding we were not speaking. We currently are not speaking, for reasons to me unknown. I do not want to put up with that behavior while planning but I feel obligated to have her as a bridesmaid since I was in her wedding. Should I do what I want or be a friend and have her in my wedding?
Whenever you have to ask yourself whether someone should be in your wedding party, the answer is probably no. To begin with, the smaller the wedding party, the less chance there is of drama. And if you've got someone you know already causes drama, why invite her to bring the drama to your wedding?