I have 5 BM's to shop for thank you gifts and it seems that 1 of them
doesn't want me to spend any money on her...BUT I don't want her to be
the only one w/o a gift when I give everyone else theirs...in lieu of a
charitable donation in her name I have no idea what to do? I've given
charitably in the past in their names and it was received well, but I'm
hesitant to do so b/c its my wedding...