LOL @ MrsDeLeo. I hear what Garden is saying about black dresses BUT as long as there is enough light in other ways, black dresses just look classy to me. (But if the lighting is dark in the hall/church, then any dark color is not the best idea.)
another option to add a little color would be shoe clips. there are some great red flowers on www.shoeclips.biz
you could buy each of your BM a pair as your gift to them and then they can use them for other special occasions on different shoes if they want.
don't make your wedding too serious, remember to have fun!
The colors that Ive finally decided for my wedding are ...sage green, light pale yellow, silver, and white. Im having the HARDEST time deciding on two things.
#1 My fiance wants a black tux, but one way or another would like a bit of red (his fav color) incorporated with his tux. I'm not sure how any shade of red will look good with the colors chosen for the wedding ....
#2 Colors for bridesmaids dresses!! Also two of my bridesmaids are male, so what should they wear?!