i need some help! i got married in may so i can buy a house and live married, im a christian so thats morally and biblically correct, i did a small thing at my house with the mayor with intentions of waiting a year and having a "big" wedding problem is i just switched churches and the pastor does not perform renewal of vows ceremony-it is not scriptural he says-but everything is planned for june-bridesmaids,reception,flowers-the whole nine? Could i just have a reception and still dress????