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MrsMcCain Posts : 581 Registered: 10/24/07
Re: Bachellor Party Girls?
Posted: Mar 23, 2009 12:32 PM Go to message in response to: luckymebride

Well since we're on the strip club topic.....
I personally do not like strip clubs. It just makes me feel bad about myself knowing that the man I love would want to go and watch other naked women. I have told him this before and he knows how I feel, and it is disrespectful.

However, I have let him go on occassion with a group of guys. I think since we have been together he has gone to a strip club three times, and once was for his own bachelor party. I knew beforehand that he was going to go to a strip club and I told him that I hate them, but I didn't want to control him so I let it slide, but I was very clear that there were to be NO LAP DANCES. He got to look, but if a naked woman actually touched him I would be very upset. I don't believe he had any lap dances, and I have no reason to think that he would lie to me about it because he does love me. I also think all strippers are nasty, sorry but I have yet to meet a classy one who doesn't put out. And yes, I have met quite a few strippers and none of them impressed me.

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kelleyiskelley Posts : 11,593 Registered: 7/2/06
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 1:07 PM Go to message in response to: MrsMcCain



Munch munch.... sip sip.....

Oh, this is getting good!

2 tickets for "Pointless Stripper Debate Part Deux" please?

Thank you.

munch crunch munch
sip sip....



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MrsURStupid Posts : 10 Registered: 3/23/09
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 1:35 PM Go to message in response to: ShadowsofFenrir

Hi, I think it would be so cool to stripper for my fiance, I bet I could do just as good a job as anybody else and plus I could make sure that nobody else was touching him. I know he wouldn't go home with anybody but he might get a lap dance if he is drinking so I should be the one to give him a lap dance. I know he wouldn't mind if I stripped for his friends, he likes to show me off to them anyway. So it would be okay, of course I wouldn't give them any lap dances.

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kelleyiskelley Posts : 11,593 Registered: 7/2/06
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 1:38 PM Go to message in response to: MrsURStupid

Is there something in the air today? lol. Jeez.
Hey there MsURStupid (nice name) - you sound like a real class act. Any relation to someone by the name of "Hottbride" by any chance? This all sounds vaguely familiar.

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MrsURStupid Posts : 10 Registered: 3/23/09
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 1:48 PM Go to message in response to: kelleyiskelley

Thank you I try to be classy at all times. I don't know who this Hottbride is but she sounds like she might have been fun.

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SoonToBeMrsDodge Posts : 70 Registered: 2/7/09
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 1:49 PM Go to message in response to: kelleyiskelley

haha Kelley! Pass me some popcorn! :) And yes Birdlover, he definitely knows how to talk to a woman! His mama raised him right in that respect. He's a total gentleman and I love him :)


I'm comfortable enough in my relationship to let my FH go to a strip club if he wanted to (which I've already said he doesn't prefer to go to them). But I can see how it would become a problem if he made it a regular thing, unless I were included. Just because I'd rather us spend time together than be apart. We've gone to 2 different bachelor parties together where there we strippers and he's been to 2 without me, but none of them made me question my FH's feelings for me. He's never given me a reason to make me feel like I couldn't trust him so if his Best Man wants to take him out to a strip club for his bachelor party (which he'll most likely argue) then so be it. He's coming home to me at the end of the night anyways so what does it matter? haha. And honestly if a guy wants to leave you for a stripper, you are so better off without him lol. That's just sad.

My FH loves hunting and fishing so he really wants to gather up his good friends to go sport clay shooting or take a charter boat out fishing for his bachelor party. He said he'd have more fun doing that.


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BrighterThanSun... Posts : 854 Registered: 10/17/08
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 1:56 PM Go to message in response to: MrsURStupid

a classy woman who is an engaged to a married man while his wife has no idea what is going on

yes, classy at all times, you are so right.

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MrsURStupid Posts : 10 Registered: 3/23/09
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 2:08 PM Go to message in response to: BrighterThanSun...

I don't see why it would be a problem. His wife is going to know all about it this week so then what would be your arguement.

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PharmToxGirl Posts : 5,462 Registered: 8/30/07
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 2:14 PM Go to message in response to: MrsURStupid

I'm not about to shake anything for DH's friends. FOr DH in the privacy of our home - that's a whole other ball of wax.

 

 

 

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BrighterThanSun... Posts : 854 Registered: 10/17/08
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 2:18 PM Go to message in response to: MrsURStupid

well, i am going to say this hypothetically since i don't even believe your story anymore

lets see
you claim you were in a relationship with a married man for five years
you have three year old twins with a married man
the pain that this would cause his wife would be undescribable
the pain it would cause his children would be undescribable
you would be tearing a part a family
no christmas will ever be the same for them, no birthday, no family holidays.
you would be tearing away a father from his family
of course he would still be their father but it is not the same
the childrens parents may never get a long again which is a horrible experience for a child
the woman would be depressed, insecure, ashamed, etc.
the woman would probably blame herself, hate herself and hate her husband.
the children will hate their father
they may not be able to afford the house they live in, they may have to move, change lifestyles dramatically


and it would all be YOUR fault

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tessandnate09 Posts : 136 Registered: 4/21/08
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 2:35 PM Go to message in response to: BrighterThanSun...

Brighter- Well said.

URStupid- I have four words for you. No One Believes You.

On the subject. I would never dance for my fiance and his buddies. Like Pharm said, in the privacy of our own home, hell yes. I'm not a big fan of strip clubs, but FH's friends and co-workers are, he has been to one once on a night out and no muss no fuss. He said the music was loud and the drinks were to expensive. I love him and if it were my choice he wouldn't go to them, but he is an individual and he makes his own decisions and since that first time he has chosen not to go. However, that is MY opinion and others are entitled to theirs.

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MrsURStupid Posts : 10 Registered: 3/23/09
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 3:20 PM Go to message in response to: BrighterThanSun...

Why is this my fault? I didn't know he was married when we first started dating. He never said anything about being married. When I found out I was pregnant and told him that is when he told me his wife was pregnant too. That is the first I had heard of his being married and by then it was to late to stop what had been going on. So if anyone is at fault it is him, not me.

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tessandnate09 Posts : 136 Registered: 4/21/08
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 3:31 PM Go to message in response to: MrsURStupid

Oh. If this was a real situation he would have fault, but you stayed with him and that is your fault. How would you like to be cheated on for 5 years by your husband? If he did it once he would do it again. Anyone who cheats on their wife for 5 years and gets both of them pregnant is a dispicable A**hole and anyone who continues to date them after finding out he is married is not much better.

Other than that it sounds like you watch to much day time tv. I smell a soap plot.

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MrsURStupid Posts : 10 Registered: 3/23/09
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 3:49 PM Go to message in response to: tessandnate09

I have two children with him, so of course I still see him. My children deserve to have a father just like anyone else.

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kelleyiskelley Posts : 11,593 Registered: 7/2/06
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Posted: Mar 23, 2009 4:01 PM Go to message in response to: MrsURStupid

Listen MrsStupid - IF you are even for real, and I still really doubt that you are, then you have a lot of growing up to do. You are planning a wedding with a man who is STILL MARRIED. He is not even divorced yet, and you are talking about marrying this idiot. True - he is your twins father, but that doesnt mean you need to marry him. They can see him and have a relationship with him of course, but marrying someone who is already still married is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Youve already had children with a man who has a whole other family with his WIFE - heres an idea: why not slow things down between the two of you and simply wait out the divorce; and then casually date one another and see how it goes. SEE how great of a father he will be to those kids before you give your whole life to him. Neither of you sound very bright, to be honest with you. But that would be if this was for real - which it isnt.

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