I really think that before any woman gets married they should really talk to people and learn from thier lives with mother in laws. During my dating time with my husband my mother in law acted like the nicest person you wanted to meet. Once that ring was sliped on my finger there turned her ugly side. I wish now that I would have had people tell me about thier lives good and bad with thier mother in laws so I could be prepared. It seems to be worst when they have thier little girls with them too.