Rude Co-Workers!! (Yes, it is wedding related!)

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RanAway2Maine Posts : 2,359 Registered: 1/27/08
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Posted: Oct 4, 2008 9:25 PM Go to message in response to: brix24

brix-you always give me a chuckle!!!

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TattooedStarlit Posts : 202 Registered: 12/18/07
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 11:24 AM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

I wouldn't say my co-workers have been rude about me getting engaged but  some of them have and still do make sarcastic comments about me getting married. The two younger co-workers (both older than myself) always act jealous that I am happy with my relationship and they are not (they are both single and the girl has a 5 year old)  I have also had a co-worker try to tell me how I should wear my hair, that I should dye my hair (because I am 22 years old and have A LOT of white hair), what kind of shoes I should wear and that I should cover up all my tattoos for my wedding.  That pissed me off because where does she get off telling me how I should look on my wedding day?  She isn't invited!  I guess she thinks that since her daughter is getting married in December (she got legally married already because where she is have the ceremony it is in Dominican Republic) she can tell me how I should be.  I'm just happy that FH's co-workers like me so much and are happy him and I are getting married.


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AutumnPrincess Posts : 87 Registered: 7/8/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 11:33 AM Go to message in response to: TattooedStarlit

Ugh that sucks, you know what they are totally just jealous. Screw them. I hate how women can act towards each other sometimes. You sound like a beautiful person and if they don't like your individual style screw them. Next time they say something like that you should start telling them how they can improve themselves.  Not rudely or anything but just comments and then they'll see how they like it!

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TattooedStarlit Posts : 202 Registered: 12/18/07
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 1:22 PM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

Awww!  Thank you for such a sweet comment!  I really appreciate that.  As for the people I work with, I try to ignore them.  If I say something back to them, even not being rude, they flip out.  I think it's just better if I talk to my FH, and of course anyone on here who is willing to listen  :), about it.

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AutumnPrincess Posts : 87 Registered: 7/8/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 1:35 PM Go to message in response to: TattooedStarlit

And you can rant about it to us, which always seems to help me! Yeah I know a lot of people like that, who dish it out but sure can't take it.

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RanAway2Maine Posts : 2,359 Registered: 1/27/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 1:37 PM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

HI AUTUMN!!!

Just wanted to say HELLO! 

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AutumnPrincess Posts : 87 Registered: 7/8/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 1:42 PM Go to message in response to: RanAway2Maine

Hello! :)

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disneybride09 Posts : 11 Registered: 2/12/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 3:23 PM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

That is horrible! Im 2 years younger than you and I haven't even experienced that! I think he is jealous and gets pleasure ruining other peoples happiness.
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beentogether9ye... Posts : 53 Registered: 10/7/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 3:55 PM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

It sounds like this possibly sexist guy is really jealous.  Probably because he is so nasty he won't ever find someone nice.  I am a pretty private person so I haven't told anyone who I work with.  I work with about 100 people!  But my bf told our doctor that we just got engaged the other day, he sprained a muscle.  He said that the doctor tried to talk him out of it.  He is convinced though that the doctor has the hots for me and wants to keep me single so he can ask me out. 

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AutumnPrincess Posts : 87 Registered: 7/8/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 3:58 PM Go to message in response to: beentogether9ye...

The doctor tried to talk him out of it? That's NUTS! What kind of a professional does that? It's one thing for my idiotic co-worker to say that but for a doctor? I'd find a new one ASAP. What a jerk. How old is this doctor?

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Nalamienea Posts : 2,924 Registered: 6/13/08
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Posted: Oct 7, 2008 4:02 PM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

I have three coworkers, all women, the boss is in her 60's and has never been married, and the other two both have children my age and are unhappily married.  They all are really excited for me. In fact one of them said "I don't think I believed marriage could be fun before I saw the two of you." AWWWWW! :)

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Mushaboo Posts : 2,165 Registered: 3/22/08
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Posted: Oct 11, 2008 9:36 PM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

Just read the OP and nothing more but the guy sounds like a pig.  Who cares.  The only way he probably gets laid is by his right hand so just ignore him.

If you have to say something to him, try this: "I understand that you're going to have a long and lonely life so I'm thrilled that I have found a man mature enough to handle marriage.  Thanks for proving to me how lucky I am."

or "Everytime I see your mug it makes thank God I'm going home to my FH."  Don't give him time to respond. Smile.  Walk away.


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JessyNChris Posts : 120 Registered: 4/3/08
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Posted: Oct 13, 2008 5:08 PM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

I actually had the experience, but I wasn't engaged at the time. A guy I worked with brag about how he hooked up with a girl, and acted all the women in the place was "his." I saw through him. He kept asking me to go with him. He even told me his mother told him I would be perfect for him, and she doesn't even know me.

This guy you work with sounds like he wants you to get mad at your FI, and go with him.


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RainyBride Posts : 18 Registered: 6/1/06
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Posted: Oct 16, 2008 10:22 AM Go to message in response to: AutumnPrincess

This guy is SO insecure!  He is constantly trying to prove how desirable he is, and can't stand to see someone else happy -he has to ruin it!

Sad.  I'm sorry that he's making it personal.  Thank goodness for your own common sense and a smart FH.

You know, his behavior is really inappropriate for work, maybe you could talk to your boss?


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