FH's crazy ex-girlfriend

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SoInLove987 Posts : 415 Registered: 1/31/07
FH's crazy ex-girlfriend
Posted: Apr 30, 2007 11:30 AM

Ok, so I jsut got a phone call from FH and since you guys are my free therapy, I have to vent.

Heres the back story:

FH dated this girl named Jenelle for like 5 years. She was his high school sweetheart. She comes from a really messed up family and ended up living with FH for a couple years. They finally broke it off about a year before FH and I started dating. After they broke up, she would always call him, drive by his house, etc and that kept happening till a few months after FH and I started dating. Needless to say, it was annoying. Jenelle ended up meeting this guy and marrying him and having a baby. This guy is in and out of jail, and uses drugs. Its sad really.

FH works for Publix(grocery store) and he recently got promoted. By our bad luck, he got moved to the store right around the corner from Jenelle's mom(where Jenelle is currently living). Her mom was in the store one day and saw my FH working there. She then called the store and starting talking crap about him. (she is crazy) Then yesterday FH was at work and guess who was there "shopping".  Jenelle and her mom.

Well, today, FH gets a phone call on the store phone and his boss said "I think its your fiancee on the phone" It wasnt me. It was Jenelle. She said "Hi, I saw you yesterday. Your promoted? Good for you. I bet you got a great raise. You look amazing by the way. Ohh yeah, my husband found out that I went to your store yesterday and he messed up my car. He smashed my windsheild and tore up the seats and steering wheel. He said he is going to your store today to kick your ass." OMFG. Are you serious? This is freakin nuts! So immediately, FH tells his boss what she said and tells the store manager what she said so his ass is covered. The store manager called Jenelle's husbands store(he works for Publix too) to see if he was there and they said that he called out today. The store manager (who is on FH side thank god) said that if the husband steps foot in the store that she is calling the cops.

Now, this kid is tiny and could not kick my FH ass. But its still annoying. FH has to spend his day looking over his shoulder to make sure he isnt sucker punched in the face. Plus, he had to move his truck to the next shopping plaza over so this psycho guy doesnt mess it up. This looks really bad for FH and I pray that it doesnt put his job in jeopardy. I really hate ex's.

Does anyone else have a crazy ex-girlfriend story they want to share? Maybe we can start a thread about crazy ex's.


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Posted: Apr 30, 2007 1:11 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

amy i ahve an dooozzy of one for you..

fh's ex dumps him on some stupid shit, and about an month afterwards, he gets with me.. in that time, his ex calls his phone leaving racist and vicious death threats on his phone and myspace, they left shit on my myspace also, and they made an anti- kevin site saying that he's an nazi and shit like that... and the worse thing is that she even got her friends involed and they started calling too.... and the last phone call that we got was a month and a half ago

i actually have an post on here called " anyone in an interracial relationship... an shoulder plz" it would go in depth to what has been going on...


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Posted: Apr 30, 2007 5:04 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

wow amy that is alot of crap. i am sorry you have to deal with that. we are here for you.

 


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Posted: Apr 30, 2007 5:09 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

OMG she sounds so crazy, along with her husband!  WOW!

My FH's ex finally stopped calling a couple of months ago.  When we first started dating she wasn't that bad - or so I thought because they were just friends.  Well that is what my FH thought too, which I had no problem with.  I'm still friends with one of my exes so there's nothing wrong with that in my eyes, except the fact that all she was trying to do was get closer to him.  She would call on a daily basis or send text messages.  One night we were drinking and seh called me a "stupid b***" to him on the phone - that was a huge mistake on her part, I grabbed the phone and started to tell her how I felt about her, but she was too much of a wuss and hung up on me.

Finally FH told her to stop calling and texting him.  Then she stopped for a couple of months and started up again.  He told her to stop again.  Then he told her he bought me a ring, we had moved in together and he was going to ask me to marry him.  She just went psycho.  Started bawling, asked him to rethink it, break up with me and move out so they could be together.  I mean seriously, are you kidding me girl!??!  We'd been together for a little less than a year, but they'd been broken up for like 3.  I shouldn't have been as surprised by this as I was, but wow.  The girl has no self-respect apparently.  Then she wanted to invited to the wedding - FH said NO WAY.  She's just relentless.  Finally a couple of months ago she got a b/f and has called a lot less (oh by the way she called to tell FH she got a boyfriend - great who cares!).  But when she calls she says she still wants to be friends with him.  Get over it girl, she's gone way past "just friends" in my eyes.  I just hope she doesn't find out where the wedding is, I fear she'll show up!


 

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NatSeptBride Posts : 888 Registered: 3/28/06
Re: FH's crazy ex-girlfriend
Posted: Apr 30, 2007 8:05 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

My Dh ex is a fruitcake, so I can sympathize with all of you.   She use to call so much that his home answering machine as well as his cell phone would be at the max # of messages... She had kids by her ex husband, so none of them were DH's, but she would call and start crying and say the kids miss him and ask her all the time why he has a gf now and she doesn't have a bf.  I had one of her friends come up to me at one of DH's softball games and tell me that she use to ask this girl to drive by our house and see if I was here..  She use to call even after she knew I was living here... And when Dh told her for the 10000000 time to stop calling him, she started emailing him! 

 

One time Dh had to go to a wake, and apparently she was there because he had no less than gotten in our door and she was calling the house... We didn't check to see who was calling we just waited for the answering machine to pick up which is how we knew it was her because she was like," Oh it was soooo good to see you.  You look amazing, it just makes me miss you more... "  Blah blah blah...  Anyway that's not even half of it, but enough to make a clear picture on how crazy and annoying this woman is...

 

OH one time after they had broken up and before DH had met me... She got pissed at him for hugging one of his good friends FW good bye.. so she flipped out, she was drunk so Dh tried to take her keys since she'd gotten in her car and was going to drive, she bit dh's arm.  Then got out of the car and hit dh in the face with a flip flop...

 

Nothing like a crazy ex.  TO THE OP...... If I were your fh I'd be getting a restraining order on his ex's bf, and I'd also be keeping track of her phone calls, that way if she goes even more nuts he has proof of her calling him etc...


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myra Posts : 5,550 Registered: 3/28/06
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Posted: Apr 30, 2007 8:30 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

Since this was a threat, I'd suggest that you file a police report. They probably won't do anything, but at least you're on record--and someone might go out and question him, which could (no guarantee) scare him--or at least, her.

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NovemberBride19 Posts : 519 Registered: 8/27/06
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Posted: Apr 30, 2007 10:44 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

YIKES!  I am SSSSOOOO glad FH and I are each other's first boyfriend/girlfriend!  What a freaking psycho! 

 

     

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Posted: May 1, 2007 3:58 AM Go to message in response to: NovemberBride19

god, its just sad how people would stoop so low to make someone else's life hell because the other person moved on....

 


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CapeCodBride08 Posts : 151 Registered: 3/9/07
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Posted: May 1, 2007 5:20 AM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

Oh I love this place.

 

SO before michael met me, all of his girlfriends cheated on him because being the 'good guy' isn't as sexy as being a $hit bag... anyways this one particular female messed with my fiances head all the time (for entertainment), would throw fits if he tried to go anywhere with his friends. She went as far as pulling a knife on him bc he wanted to go to a concert with his friend and then threatened to kill herself . The grand finale to their tretchrous at best relationship, she took his car to sleep with his co worker in a parking lot of a ghetto roach motel. This chick decided that half way into my fiance & i's relationship she'd stop by his mom's house, and that she wanted him to play daddy to her daughter .... so gross

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TinaNTim Posts : 254 Registered: 12/8/06
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Posted: May 1, 2007 7:08 AM Go to message in response to: CapeCodBride08

well, here I used to think way back when I was the psycho ex, but these girls describe got NOTHING on me!  All I did was drive by his house a few times after we broke up.  I had good reason to annoy him though.....I was pregnant with his kid.  15 years later, we're actually friends (in fact his wife and I are the best of friends LOL).  They're coming to my wedding to FH next year.  His wife has been helping me plan!  

 My FH doesn't have a pyscho ex.  I do, kind of.  He's not pyscho, he just doesn't realize the good thing he has when he has it and then when it's gone, he wants it back.  

My best friend's hubby's ex was a nut.  When they first got together, his ex would literally STALK us when we went out.  If we went to a local bar, she would show up.  She'd drive by the house and she would also WAIT in the parking lot across the street and watch for when me and my friend would leave.  One time, my best friend was staying at his house (this was before they moved in together) and we had gone out to a late movie. I dropped her off and next thing I know this crazy B*tch is following me on my way home.  tailgating, bright lights in my face.  Finally, when I stopped she gets out and starts yelling.  telling me to get away from her man, blah blah blah...she thought I was my best friend.  So i get out of the car (i'm tall) and she steps back. I tell her to get her fat ass back in her truck and to never mess with the big girls.  (we were 28 she was 22).  I drove home, called the cops.  they went knocking on her door. it was then her parents FINALLY realized that she had a problem.  my best friend's hubby had called them telling them to get her some help because of her antics.  they didn't believe him, until that night. 


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Posted: May 1, 2007 11:28 AM Go to message in response to: TinaNTim

oh oh, my turn, lol!!! It's not my FH who has the crazy ex, it's me. We have a son together who is 5. We broke up when he was 1! After 4 years he still tries to cause drama for me when I'm in a relationship. His first comment when I started dating FH was so when you gonna dump this one? He assumes that I won't stay in a relationship becasue he and I didn't work. (fyi he was lazy, couldn't hold a job, verbally abusive, spent all my money, and isisted that our son be in daycare even though he didnt' work) So now that FH and I are engaged and buying a house (we close 5/11/07) he took me to court to get primary custody of our son for the school year!! He can't pay a dime of daycare or do things to support his kids(has an older son, not mine) but he thinks that he is going to have our son all the time! Think NOT!!! He tried to say is better for son to live in city close to his psyco family(talk about issues!!!) and not have pets or a yard or 2 parents around!! Hello, 2 adults with stable jobs and pets and nice house....  think he's lost his mind. We're waiting for the judges decision,but should have it any day! He also still asks people that we both know about what I'm doing and where I've been going out and things like that. Grr.....  wish he would just disappear!!! 

Oh and even better now he's running around saying the only reason FH and I got engaged is because I'm pregnant!! He'll see in a few months when I don't gain any weight!! LOL... thought that was a good one!!!!!!!!!!!

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SoInLove987 Posts : 415 Registered: 1/31/07
Re: FH's crazy ex-girlfriend
Posted: May 1, 2007 12:30 PM Go to message in response to: Guest

Wow, we have some crazy ex's around us. Geez.

Anyway, I told FH last night over really yummy mexican that he should try to get a restraining roder against this nutcase. He, being a man, just blew it off like it was no big deal. I was more upset and worried then he was.

And I found out what the guy said. After he messed up Jenelle's car, he walked in and said...."Yeah, you like that? Well your ex boyfriend is next."

Im terrified. Like I dont want him to be anywhere alone. He is acting like such a tough guy saying that he can easily kick this guys ass (which he can) but being bigger and stronger wont help him when this lunatic stabs him with a knife or something. He has a record and one of his felonies was assault with a deadly weapon. Scary stuff...


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Posted: May 1, 2007 1:59 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

im gonna suggest something that someone on my vent post told me, go to the 5-0 on your own, then tell  fh how you ae scared for your life.. since this dude has an record as is w/ assult with an deadly weapon on it at that... i wouldnt take any chances with it amy


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Posted: May 1, 2007 2:00 PM Go to message in response to: SoInLove987

I have a crazy ex. Haven't heard anything from him in a few years. His current girlfriend likes to message me on MySpace every once in a while (which is really weird because I only met her once and that was at a friend's father's wake).

I dated this guy from age 15- 16. I started dating DH at age 16, so this guy was my only other serious boyfriend.

The night be broke up, I called my best friend (also my boyfriend's best friend) to come over and be with me when I did it. I told my Boyfriend that I didn't want to be with him anymore and then pretty much hung up, he continuously called the house nonstop for about 20 minutes until my dad picked up the phone and said if he called again, he was going to call the cops. Then my dad turned on the internet and tied up the phone line (we had dial-up at the time). About a week later my family went on vacation and I thank God for that, I just needed to get away from him. When I returned, I went to my Best friend's house to tell him about my vacation, my ex was there and began bawling and begging me to take him back. I left right away. A few months later I began dating DH. We met at work (Wendy's, fast food, so romantic) and when my ex found out, he tried to get a job there. He came up to work all the time and wanted nothing but to talk to me. It got to a point that the managers told him to leave as soon as he would walk in. My DH was really getting pissed. All of this happened at the very beginning of summer vacation. When we started back to school, all of our mutal friends were telling me how shitty it was of me to be dating someone else already. It had been three months (and we were 16, how long did they think was appropriate?) When I told them that ex and I had been apart for 3 months, they were shocked. My ex made it sound as if it had just happened. He called all the time. To make matters worse, our Gov't teacher sat the class in ABC order and wouldn't you know that our names were Kuhn and Kerr. Right in front of me the whole semester. He would try to pick fights and tell me about his new, wonderful girlfriend. I would just tell him that was wonderful.


                                       

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NatSeptBride Posts : 888 Registered: 3/28/06
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Posted: May 2, 2007 10:37 AM Go to message in response to: Guest

Ugh Linz I had a crazy ex in highschool to!!  This guy was a total lunatic... I dated him from 15 to 17.  He would call my house upwards of 30 times a day no exageration.  He would call from any phone he could because I blocked out all the #'s he called from..  He would drive by my house Allllllllll day, he would follow me home from school.  He would call my sisters house because he knew I babysat for her alot, and if I didn't answer the phone he'd hang up, and call again.  He knew that I would go for walks every day with friends, and he would drive along the route we walked.  He'd call and threaten to kill himself.. I mean it was just endless...  He called me one morning at like 6 am to tell me he had a dream and needed my forgiveness... Then he'd just call randomly a couple times a year.   He actually called my parents house in 2005 looking for me.... 

 

Some people are just nuts..... Having to deal with stuff like that makes us stronger people though.


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