Well... this is something only YOU can answer. It all depends on what you will and wont put up with in your life, in your husband to be. Some people can forgive an affair... some cannot. Its hard to put myself in that situation, but I dont think I could forgive it. Its good that he told you about it... a positive sign... however, if he is already betraying your trust before marriage, I do believe he would be capable of doing this again. This is not a good way to enter into a marriage. Also, you cant just have an affair.. apoligize and say you regret it, and hope it goes away. Thats not how it works. You and he need to DEAL with this together if you have any hope of a future with each other. You need to talk about it, about WHY he did this, how it made you feel, and can you move on, etc. You should also maybe see a counselor together to explore why this happened. Very sad situation... so sorry youre dealing with this... but its really entirely your call whether or not you want to move forward. I would say whatever you decide, how your fiance DEALS with this will tell you a lot about his character.
Kelley Lynn:)
