That's very pretty :) I agree that the top picture, with your FH's name first, is pretty even if it isn't the normal order.
I tried my hand at a monogram myself, but I used only Microsoft PowerPoint. I still have no idea what else I would put it on besides the back of my programs, and the top of the menu - what will you be using your monogram for?
I have this little name card I made (picture below) that I hand out to vendors at like ... Bridal Show or when I meet with them. And I'm using it for save the date, for the invitation, program, manu ---everything possible. I'm doing ALL of the stationary myself. My printer that my FH got me is a real good one so everything come up looking like real professional. I make business card for people as my part time business aside from going to school full time.
If you want me to do the monogram for you, e-mail me at email@example.com ANYTIME tell me your color (if you want it in color) or tell me if you want it Black and White. Tell me the first initial of your future last name (your FH's last name) and your first name and FH's first name. Tell me if you want it either classic style, modern, or combine (mine is combine). If you look around like in google and you find a monogram that you like---e-mail me the picture so I'll get the idea of your taste. :)