I had a long lunch with my fiance today. One of my sisters is married to one of his brothers, when I called my sisters to get the scoop on this, my sister called him up and read him the riot act. He's been waiting for me to bring it up on the telephone. lol I asked him why he never mentioned this woman, his reply was that he thought I knew - EVERYONE KNOWS. (This woman was pregnant, which caused a bit of a scandal around here in itself, when her baby was born it was obviously NOT my fiance's baby. My fiance was in the delivery room, with no clue that she had cheated on him. Apparently, it was immediately obvious that the child has another racial background. My fiance left the hospital almost immediately and moved out of state the following week. He felt publicly humiliated and completely devestated. I do vaguely remember when he moved to Atlanta, but, as I said in a previous post, he really wasn't a real part of my life at the time.) This is a perfect example of why I love this man so much; after my sister gave him what-for, he called up his ex's mother, got the ex's telephone number and gave HER what-for. Her story was that she wanted to give me the fire opal earrings that fiance had given her as they are antiques that came from his family. He suggested she messenger them over to his office along with anything else she wanted to return. I don't know if I believe her story, but as it turns out, it doesn't matter. I suppose I will eventually come in contact with her, especially since she lives nearby. To those of you who question why I was not more distraught over this, believe me, I WAS upset, but it is not in my nature to become overly emotional or jump to conclusions. (If it were, I would have quit this board the night I first enrolled!) Thank you again, to all of you who were so concerned for me. It is nice to know that there are so many kind women on this board.