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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613707&amp;tstart=0#613707</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[Offer a compromise to the groom.  Offer her a "job" or something/reading in wedding.  That way she is a part of the wedding but not standing with you.  Or he can have her stand with him.  Or nothing.]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 18:28:36 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 24, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>chris42005</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613628&amp;tstart=0#613628</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[I am with the others... if he needs her in the wedding party, she can be a grooms woman.   He does not get to dictate who stands on your side.<br />...]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 22:39:08 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 22, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>CatStandish</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613610&amp;tstart=0#613610</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[It's not up to your fiance to decide who stands on your side for the wedding. That's supposed to be your support group and people you really care about. That's the point.<br />...]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 21:56:13 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 22, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>BrighterThanSunshine</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613607&amp;tstart=0#613607</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[And if he wants her in the WP he CAN HAVE HER ON HIS SIDE.<br />
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That's always an option.]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 20:55:12 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 22, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>PharmToxGirl</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613616&amp;tstart=0#613616</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[Dear IK,<br />...]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 20:50:15 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 22, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>Aunt</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613615&amp;tstart=0#613615</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[Thank You Ladies, I will definitely keep all of your advice in mind. <br />...]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 20:36:53 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 22, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>imaginarykiss995</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613606&amp;tstart=0#613606</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[Dear IK,<br />...]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 19:44:50 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 22, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>Aunt</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613589&amp;tstart=0#613589</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[I wouldn't include her.  She doesn't like you, therefore she has no excuse to be offended if you don't ask her.  You ask people who support you, and your relationship with your FH.  Obviously she doesn't support you.  <br />...]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 13:21:58 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 22, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>FutureMrsDJLeo</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613567&amp;tstart=0#613567</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[I'm with BTS.  If you don't want her to stand up with you, don't have her.<br />
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IF your FH wants her to stand up with him, then he can.]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 21:36:02 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 21, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>PharmToxGirl</jf:author>
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        <title>Re: SIL as a bridesmaid?</title>
        <link>http://www.brides.com/forums/thread.jspa?messageID=613549&amp;tstart=0#613549</link>

        

        
            <description><![CDATA[A bridesmaid is a person who is important to you and who you want to stand by your side on your wedding day.<br />
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There is nothing that says that you should make your FSIL your  bridesmaid. So don't.]]></description>
        

        <pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 20:29:22 -0400</pubDate>

        

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        <jf:date>Mar 21, 2011</jf:date>
        <jf:author>BrighterThanSunshine</jf:author>
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