We're going super casual. A small wedding (under 50 people) at a rose garden followed by dinner with our close relatives.
The next day we're having a BBQ reception with an acoustic guitar duo.
We're focused on expressing ourselves and not letting our moms dictate what we do (i.e. enter our marriage with some debt from a $40,000 wedding) -- we have a decent budget set aside, but I'd prefer to take a better, longer honeymoon than upgrade our site or caterer -- sounds selfish, but do you remember what you ate at a wedding 2 years ago (or last month?).