Aunt, Everything you have mentioned is actually my greatest fear. I've thought through every possible scenario (including the ones you have mentioned) and I'm so torn. I know what I SHOULD be doing, trying to find a way to tolerate her so my relationship with my brother doesn't suffer. I've told him I don't care who he dates that's completely his decision, I just don't want our relationship to change. But with this girl, it has changed. It drives me nuts and she makes my skin crawl. I don't share this with him, or course.
I guess I didn't realize I could control what "friends" see on facebook. I assumed that friends had free range of your info. Thanks for the tip Misty.
I have already "ignored" her friend request, but I'm thinking I might request her myself and tell her I think we need to have a conversation. If I can get some things straightened out, some questions answered, and be reassured she is not using my brother, I would feel a lot better. What do you ladies think? Would this conversation be a bad idea? If it's just her and I, not my brother, not my cousin, not even my husband (who tries to be everybody's friend).
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