First of all, Bill, the very first post was about somebody's stalker ex-GIRLfriend, so it's interesting that you're accusing all the females on this thread of leading their ex-boyfriends on.
And no, really, there are people out there that are just crazy, both men and women, that can't take a hint and will keep calling you until you change your number and/or get a restraining order, etc. I had an ex-boyfriend like that many years ago, and I consider myself a normal person. You really don't think there's anybody out there that's off their rocker and has stalker potential, and it's always the victim's fault? Do you believe rape victims lead on their attackers as well?