Tobi, Kelley and anyone else with weird ears I would try the earphones
that hook over your ears. They are small like the ipod ear phones but
stay put better than those, without the enormous 80's look.
Those are the ones DH has - like I said, he hates the earbuds and can't get em to stay in his ears but he loves ones that look like these:
see how they wrap aroundn your ear and the earbud piece sits nicely in your ear? im sure you could find them in wireless too though...