yes he lives at home. no, i dont work but he does. and theres no way he could use his moms credit card. he has is own. he didnt tell his mom bout the enagement ring. she just figured out for her self. now let me ask u all this, would u want a mother n law that would be mean and rude to you all the time? i know i wouldn't. and hes tryin to be brave as possible. it just seems like she just doesnt wanna let go of her own son. chain needs to be broken. least my parents are lettin me get married.and there never ugly to my sweetheart. and if u all wanted to know his name, his names eric.