Yes, I understand the whole loneliness thing. Reaaly, I do. I have known many guys that are in the military and their g/fs and/or wives have left them while they were overseas, it was awful watching them go through it and I would NEVER be able to put anyone through that, especially someone that is overseas.
I know it's going to be rough, but life is tough we just need to adapt to it. and FH and I are getting married in April. There is no time for him to get use to it before we are married. There is no other option if he wants to join, we both will have to deal with the tough times.
With his job now he is not home much, granted he is not gone months at a time. That will be something I will need to get use to.
I also know that it will be pretty much a culture shock. Which we would be doing anyway, bc we want to move somewhere nothing like here.
It will be a long, hard journey. This I knew from the beginning of our debate unpon joining the AF.