I could never marry a military man. Too much stress and worry (no matter how safe they "promise" the job will be). The lonliness...so it would be hard for me to give any advice without being biased.
The only thing I would say is, before making this decision, really really think about the huge lifestyle change this would be, and if you'd be okay with it. Forget the money, forget the "paying for school stuff"...because if you can't survive the lifestyle, none of that stuff will matter.