I hope it all works out for you....IT IS SOOOO HARD WITH FAMILY AND HOLIDAYS!!... I feel like everytime the holidays come around, our plans have to revolve around his daughter...always something!! We can't plan this, she might want to do that...blah, blah, blah..(but trust me....my family makes up for it YEAR ROUND!!)
And currently my DH's MIL is not welcome in my home!!....that's a whole nother post that I haven't gotten around too!!
I have a huge family 2 hours away...our home is like a hotel...it gets OLD!! DH is very understanding and gets along with my brother really well...but the rest of friends and family...I get tired of EVERYBODY!! It just seems like we never have time for ourselves...someone is coming over or we have to make plans around his daughter.
Def. sit down and talk to him and really let him know how you feel. I'm VERY VERY close to my brother and miss home because of him, even though I haven't lived at home in ages!!