Oh yeah, I fully plan to buy a nice card, write a nice note, and then that's it. Am I surprised that she wants a gift as well? No. Do I find it not only rude, but maybe slightly odd that not a single thing from her registry is less than a hundred bucks? Yeah, honestly I do.
The dress she wants us to buy she found for 250 dollars. I found the same dress for less than 100, but she claims its not the same one (Even though it is). So the another bridesmaid drops out, telling her she could not financially do it. She was told to "Get a loan." Yeah, that's reasonable.
So she's now down to one bridesmaid. Karma's a bitch.