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KitKatBar Posts: 983 Registered: 7/23/06
Re: Wow, just wow.
Posted: Aug 17, 2008 11:53 PM

Ok, so an update.

First, I said basically the same thing Aunt. I told her to be nice, take the high road and just explain is just wasn't possible to continue to be in the party. Offer the dress to a replacement BM if need be. Wish her luck.

She did that, and the bride told her off saying she was now on her Sh*t list, and they weren't friends anymore. The former BM can't say she's all that torn up about it.

I got another email from the bride under a different account name. She sent it after I had "regretfully" declined attending her wedding as well. (It's on Christmas eve) She told me she would just forward her address to me then so I knew where to send her gift, then told me where she was registered.

I'll take the high road once more, and send her a nice card congratulating her on her wedding, but I'm not sending her a gift. Especially considering not one thing on her registry is under 100 dollars.

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