Yeah, I've simply blocked contact with her. I don't need this extra helping of crazy right now. I agree you aren't entitled to a shower or party. If someone wants to give you one, be damn grateful for it! One of the other Bridesmaids asked me what the nicest way to bow out would be. I really think by the time her wedding rolls around she's either going to have a whole new wedding party, or find herself with zero, and I'm sure, wondering why.