thanks ladies. we are going to try and see if we can find a different lender based on his income and credit alone for now and then once I get back to work we wont have to worry about the payments cause we'll have two incomes.
Between my family, his nosey brothers, our kids and now this I'm going to loose my mind. I need to get out of my apartment for a while. think I'm gonna get baby bro to babysit tomorrow and just have some me time.
I guess all things happen for a reason so maybe we weren't supposed to get the house yet.