He is my first love, i dated him when i was 14. We broke up when i was 18. This guy really broke my heart. When he dumped me, i made myself seem as much attractive and mature as poosible, i change my dress, curl my hair, put on makeup hoping this guy will not leave me because i made myself pretty for him. He took my innocence , my youth and my heart more than anything you can image.But he dumped me for someone who looks simple,pure and innocent with straigt hair and slim figure. How many times i cried for my gone innocence and pried it could come back, it just did not. Now i am 23 and got one who really loves me. i have realized how silly i was, but i still could not forget him even after this long. And still dreamed about him. What should i do?
Almost everybody has had their heart broken at one point or another in their lives. It is a part of being human! The important thing is to move on and not dwell over it, so you don't overlook all your opportunities to date new people!
If you keep pining over your lost love, you might come to find that you will have lost both - both the old one, and the new one. They can tell when you've got another man on your mind - even if it is very subtle, the men can feel it. They're not complete fools when it comes to emotions. ;)
So recognize it for what it was - a beautiful thing, your first true love, and something that is ended and over. What ifs won't help you live your life NOW.
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