Post-Baby, Hoping to walk down aisle before end of 2012!
Posted: Jun 15, 2010 2:50 AM
So my boyfriend and I were talking about marriage right before I found out I was pregnant. I gave birth to my little angel about 7 and a half weeks ago, and have begun losing the baby weight. I am now in super wedding-brain-mode. My boyfriend says he wants to get a very nice expensive engagement ring (we're young so we don't have much money) but honestly, I'd be happy with a pawn shop ring as long as it was pretty! So here I am, planning before even officially engaged because I'm so excited... but gah, as sweet as I think it is that he wants to get me something nice, I just want to wear a ring that says, "I'm taken forever". :P
This is just me, but I wonder if you should make sure your baby is well taken care of financially before you get a "nice expensive ring" (although you did say you didn't want one), and a wedding. If you really just want to get married, you can JP it and have a small party for immediate family and very close friends, to save money.
I'm just curious - how old are you?
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