Feeling Guilty, not the way you think...

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VntgGoth2010 Posts : 57 Registered: 1/24/10
Feeling Guilty, not the way you think...
Posted: Apr 22, 2010 4:38 PM

Here it is 44 days to go and all I've done all week, while at work mind you, is look at wedding stuff. I've literally put in about 15 minutes of actual WORK in the past 4 days. I feel so guilty but I just cannot pry my fingers away from the keyboard and mouse. I keep looking at photography, other people's ideas, postings, etc.

Anyone else doing the same or am I the only slacker?
    When is my wedding


BrighterThanSun... Posts : 853 Registered: 10/17/08
Re: Feeling Guilty, not the way you think...
Posted: Apr 22, 2010 5:24 PM Go to message in response to: VntgGoth2010

I go through stages like that and I'm not even engaged yet!

What I do is that I will promise myself to spend a certain amount of time doing work and then I will 'gift myself' by letting myself do whatever I want for 15-30 minutes.

So say, right now, it's exam season.

If I study for 3 hours straight--I will give myself 30 minutes to do whatever I want (which is sometimes wedding stuff) completely guilt-free.

I also try to get out of the house as much as I can and away from the computer.


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