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Guests might not stomach our Luncheon

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Hemlock Posts : 28 Registered: 7/20/09
Guests might not stomach our Luncheon
Posted: Feb 7, 2010 1:07 PM

My FH and I have our hearts set on Bistro 105, the best restaurant in Historic Jonesborough, TN.
India, the manager, has given us a limited menu for dinner and another for lunch. The dnner menu is a bit expensive for even 25 people so we've opted for the lunch menu, which will put our budget at less than half if we have went for dinner.

The luncheon will consist of 3 courses: soup, entree, and desert.
The soup will be a creamy tomato with fresh, local herbs.
The entree is a choice of four:
Ham and Swiss with baby field greens and honey dijon o a buttery toasted croissant
Bistro chicken Salad with baby field greens on a tostaed buttered croissant
Tea Garden Sandwhich- swiss, cheddar, and cream cheese with alfalfa, toasted almonds, and cucumbers on wheat berry bread.
Quiche with fresh seasonal fruit.
All the sandwhiches come with homemade chips.
The desert will be our wedding cake (which we still have not found a baker for).

The predicament?
Our families are very southern and while my family will enjo the meal or at least pretend to, his family isn't as as...eloquent.
In short I'm afraid they might look at the choices of light meals and ask "Where's the food?" or complain about the lack of alcohol, or not eat at all and complain about how horrible our reception was.

Should I give my in-laws more credit? Or should we look for a better reception site (though i fear anything other than Cracker Barrel-esque will fall short of thier tastes)? Or should I go on as if nothing happens, considering no one but me and my FH is paying for it?

Any suggestions on how to hold back the rabble?

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CheetahAngel Posts : 2,017 Registered: 11/29/08
Re: Guests might not stomach our Luncheon
Posted: Feb 8, 2010 11:09 AM Go to message in response to: Hemlock

If it's all you can afford then go for it! If the guests are not happy then screw them lol. They should be thankful that they are getting any type of food. You can't make everyone happy but as long as you and your FH are happy that's all that matters. If you want you can even put on your invitations, "light lunch will be served" But to me that sounds like it will be more than enough to eat for lunch.

 

                           
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NJ4Life Posts : 3,358 Registered: 8/10/07
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Posted: Feb 8, 2010 11:48 AM Go to message in response to: Hemlock

I think your menu sounds really yummy. I am a HUGE fan of bistro style food and I am also a huge fan of Sandwiches! Haha. Kinda like Joey from Friends!

I find it kinda funny that you're mentioning they are expecting something Cracker Barrel-esque...Your menu is WAAAAAAAAAAAY nicer than anything something like Cracker Barrel will offer.

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BrighterThanSun... Posts : 854 Registered: 10/17/08
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Posted: Feb 8, 2010 2:06 PM Go to message in response to: Hemlock

Honestly, I don't think a person can go wrong with sandwiches.

Having a soup, a sandwich with homemade chips on the side and then dessert sounds like a very filling lunch to me!

I understand that some have Southern appetites--but your menu is perfectly substantial for a luncheon. They shouldn't expect more food than that. I wouldn't worry about it.

Sounds delicious!

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bosoxgirl Posts : 231 Registered: 2/3/10
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Posted: Feb 8, 2010 4:32 PM Go to message in response to: Hemlock

What is wrong with your lunch menu?? It sounds amazing and I am very sad that I am not getting an invite to enjoy the food! The more everyone talks about a luncheon wedding reception, the more I want to have one!!! Dont even worry about your FH's family. If they wanted a say in the reception, they would have helped you financially!

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MelMix Posts : 46 Registered: 7/16/09
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Posted: Feb 8, 2010 6:52 PM Go to message in response to: Hemlock

Hemlock,

It sounds delicious! Serve what YOU and your FH would love to eat on your special day. I would hope that people would remember their manners and keep any "dislikes" to themselves..if they were in your home for dinner, would they grumble about the fare you are providing them?

Don't sweat it. You have plenty of food for all to enjoy!

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TheeBride Posts : 130 Registered: 1/17/10
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Posted: Feb 8, 2010 8:45 PM Go to message in response to: Hemlock

I think that's a perfect luncheon menu. As a guest, I wouldn't expect a heavy meal anyway plus it looks like there's something for everyone. As far as alcohol goes, if it's not in your budget I wouldn't give it a second thought. Not every bride/groom provides it anyway but if you're really worried about it see if the location has a cash bar available. Then again, it's a luncheon...let 'em go to the bar later :o)

Anyhow, I think it's a great idea and you shouldn't look for another site. Enjoy your day and congrats!


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