What do YOU think?

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LilTuffGirl Posts : 301 Registered: 11/4/08
What do YOU think?
Posted: Jun 15, 2009 5:07 PM

So the other day my FH sits down and says "wtf? I guess Steve (his cousin) drooled on the couch". I just shrugged it off.

Well today i'm sitting by that area and I look down at it. Yea I just don't really see that being drool. Not to mention when he was here he was asleep on that half of the couch and my FH was asleep on the other side. I don't see how the cousin's head would be that low down and still have room for FH on the couch.


Here is a crappy pic:





So the FH swears there hasn't been any other females at the house (I had an issue not long ago about the cousin bringing over random girls and having sex with them in our spare room. FH said he told him no more girls unless they are in a steady relationship).

I know i'm messed up and always see the worst in EVERY situation since I have a history of horrible luck. I'm REALLY trying to work on it. But first I find out about the sex in our spare room... then this?

So it's either drool...cum...doubt it's food since we never eat there.

Now FH is upset i'd even doubt him. I need a way to just ignore it. Just say who cares and clean it up. But being so close to the wedding it's getting harder. I'm scared out of my mind that i'll get hurt like I always do. I DON'T want to feel this way! FH is my best friend and I don't ever see him doing anything he knows would seriously hurt me.

So help me think of something it is... anyone ever seen drool on microfiber? I'm not about to taste it.... lol












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kelleyiskelley Posts : 11,590 Registered: 7/2/06
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Posted: Jun 15, 2009 5:22 PM Go to message in response to: LilTuffGirl

First off, ummm, thanks for the lovely visual lol. Eeeewwww. Gross, yuck, nasty, etc etc.
Now that I got THAT out of my system, lol, I dont think I quite understand the question.
If FHs cousin was having random females over at your house, woudlnt you know this? How would he sneak someone into your house without you both knowing?
And are you saying that this happened while both FH and his cousin were sleeping on the couch together? Or was he alone? Im just confused by the whole situation. If he was alone, maybe he ummm, relieved himself sexually on the couch. Which is pretty disgusting. Or maybe it IS drool, I dont know. Im not really an expert on dried up jizz vs. drool.

I guess my main question is: how does any of this = your FH hurting you? I dont get that part. If its something his cousin is doing, how is that you being hurt by your FH? Not trying to be mean here, I just honestly dont really undersand the question or situation.


And now, please excuse me while I go yack lol.


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2009ToBeMrsV Posts : 256 Registered: 12/30/07
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Posted: Jun 15, 2009 6:13 PM Go to message in response to: kelleyiskelley

I agree with Kelley, I'm kind of confused, do you think your FH was with another woman?

I definitely don't think it looks like drool though but how could he not notice if he splooged on the couch and then just leave it there? That is disgusting! Please don't taste it!!!! LOL

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myra Posts : 5,550 Registered: 3/28/06
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Posted: Jun 15, 2009 7:01 PM Go to message in response to: LilTuffGirl

Calling CSI!!! Have it analyzed. Seriously, though, no matter what it is (let's let our imaginations run wild here--ack! ugh!), why should YOU clean it up? Hand your FH and/or his cousin a rag and a bottle of fabric spray, and let them clean it up. Or, better yet, call in a professional upholstery cleaner and hand them the bill.
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FutureSaunders Posts : 95 Registered: 9/18/08
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Posted: Jun 15, 2009 7:16 PM Go to message in response to: 2009ToBeMrsV

I am another confused person, lol. But I think you are saying that you initially blamed the "spot" on your FH (as if he cheated on you) and now he is mad at you for not trusting him. And if that is the case and you are scared of being hurt again, honey that is the name of this thing we call LOVE. No matter how much we think a person (FH's) may never do anything to hurt us, we will never truly know for sure. We cannot look into our futures and check for pain, hurt, or anything else. It just doesn't work that way. You have to TRUST, I mean that is what love is all about. Being confident, trusting, and just putting your heart out there and taking risks. You have to or you will never know LOVE or truly be able to experience it. And men and women aren't perfect, so if he does hurt you that doesn't mean you relationship is over. Yall can work it out and make things right again. But going into you marriage, you cannot keep thinking about "what if he hurts me" you will never enjoy your marriage. So my advice would be to let go of the past and look forward to you future of better and brighter days. You have to be positive and not wait for the worst to happen. Best Wishes!

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LilTuffGirl Posts : 301 Registered: 11/4/08
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Posted: Jun 15, 2009 8:18 PM Go to message in response to: FutureSaunders

No I don't think FH is cheating. Just hiding his cousin's crap from me. I work 24 hour shifts and the cousin normally comes over then. When the cousin last had sex here in our spare room FH said he didn't know what was going on because he was playing Xbox. We have surround sound and he loves to use it so I can see that I guess.


I did clean it because thats just what I do.. I clean... everything... Even the damn sheets and blanket on the "cousins bed".


I just wish it was easier to get the bad thoughts out of my head. I don't want to upset FH. I always want him to be happy. I'm just working so much and going to school and doing clinicals i'm stressed and hardly ever home.


And I love the reactions ;) It's pretty damn obviouse the FH didn't do the spots since I belive he'd be smart enough to see them and clean them before ever saying "wtf what is that" out loud and to me. lol

Now that you say something.... FH did say he was digging in the closet for a CD....... porn with full surround sound.... haha


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JennHatesWaiting Posts : 74 Registered: 1/14/09
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Posted: Jun 15, 2009 10:33 PM Go to message in response to: LilTuffGirl

Oh yeah. That, my dear, is totally jizz.

That picture made me LOL, I totally needed it too. I'd give FH a rag and tell him to clean that crap up!

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Mushaboo Posts : 2,165 Registered: 3/22/08
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Posted: Jun 15, 2009 10:46 PM Go to message in response to: LilTuffGirl

Ok, that is not drool. DH falls asleep on the couch and drools. DH gets food on the couch sometimes. I will not discuss body matter. Let's just say I'm familiar with what all 3 look like on a microfiber couch. That is option #3, personal fluid. He's probably covering for his "boy". Bros before hos. J/k about the last bit. lol That is NOT drool. Not ranch dressing. I've cleaned both from our couch.

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CheetahAngel Posts : 2,017 Registered: 11/29/08
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Posted: Jun 16, 2009 7:37 AM Go to message in response to: LilTuffGirl

Thanks for the visual lol. Umm why is his cousin there? Does he live there or something? Kick him out!! lol
                              

 

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TheRealMrsJ Posts : 15 Registered: 6/11/09
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Posted: Jun 16, 2009 3:42 PM Go to message in response to: CheetahAngel

that is soooooo splooge on the couch!

if your FH swears that his cousin isn't bringing girls over, my next guess would be that he took care of himself on the couch... or had a wet dream or something...

at least that's what i would guess...

but that is definitely splooge!
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MisterKelley Posts : 258 Registered: 7/11/08
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Posted: Jun 16, 2009 7:55 PM Go to message in response to: LilTuffGirl

" You know Clark, you air that out and fumigate it, you got yourself a quality item. If you don't mind me askin'- How much did something like that set you back?"

Ah Memories! I remember the time I jizzed on our couch and told MrsKelley it was our building Super.

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cyndi33 Posts : 2,585 Registered: 1/3/07
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Posted: Jun 16, 2009 10:46 PM Go to message in response to: MisterKelley

Christmas Vacation, haha Mr Kelley, one of my very favorite of all time movies!! :) Thanks.

And ick...I generally only throw up a little bit in my mouth after some of kelley's gym stories, but hey, this one is right up there with them.

Make THEM clean it up. ick. I would not touch it. And no, it isn't drool, or ranch dressing (for whoever listed that).

Try not to stress out too much, it's tough working long shifts like that. I remember. Just try not to stress over stuff you don't need to stress over, and let your FH clean up after his cousin, that isn't your job, not at all. And again, Ick!!!

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kennysoldwife Posts : 3,859 Registered: 4/28/07
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Posted: Jun 17, 2009 8:34 AM Go to message in response to: cyndi33

I think you should take it in and have them run a DNA test, who knows it could be aliens.

 

 

 

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MrsSy Posts : 504 Registered: 7/6/08
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Posted: Jun 17, 2009 9:54 AM Go to message in response to: kennysoldwife

Ew. That's not drool. The cousin is living with you? You should had let them clean it. And stop cleaning cousin's bed sheets and blankets, lol. You're not his maid.
FBIL it's living with us, and I can't wait for him to moved out. He have until July and he still looking for house. I think he's going to end up in a apt. This weeks we are having a serious talking b/c I'm not giving him more time to look for a place. He had plenty of time. He brough two girls at the house. And after bringing the second one and not letting us sleep, I talked with him and told him no more girls, no sex in my house. Now he's stay somewhere with the girl he's dating. Se lives with her mom and it's not allowed to bring guys to her mom's house.
You need to talk with the cousin and your FH have to stop covering for his cousin. Don't feel bad for hurting your FH. You need to communicated how you feel about all this. It will hurt him more if you're not honest with him.


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kelleyiskelley Posts : 11,590 Registered: 7/2/06
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Posted: Jun 17, 2009 1:45 PM Go to message in response to: MisterKelley

Ah Memories! I remember the time I jizzed on our couch and told MrsKelley it was our building Super.

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Ah yes honey. I too , remember that lovely time. The building Super sure did look confused; so he then turned around and blamed it on our cats. I guess we will never know the real truth.


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