OK, at the risk of sounding like a shallow, incosiderate jerk, I was hoping you ladies might be able to help me out.
First off I love my FW with all that I can give. We have an amazing life together in and out of the bedroom. My concern is this, and I'm hoping I can put things delicately. My FW has an odor problem, "down there" Even after she gets out of the shower and is freshly scrubbed.
I know that most women have a certain odor to them, I know this. But it's different with my FW. I still love going down on her, but sometimes it's too much and it really kinda disappoints me since I REALLY like going downtown.
When we first had sex I was so amazed at how wet she got. I'd never experienced that with any other woman. How wet? Let's just say I don't think we'll EVER need lube... wow.
Could this be a contributing factor? That she's constantly wet and it requires her to wear panty liners so as to not constantly soil her undies? I know she goes to the doctor on a regular basis so it's not some sort of infection.
She knows she can be odorfious, so that isn't a big secret. I just want to know if any one might have some thoughs about how to help.
And I'm sorry if I have offended anyone with this post... just looking to help out the foreplay for us.
She should definitely go in for a gynecologist exam. That much odor and wetness is unusual (in my experience, anyway) and could indicate some sort of infection. There are all sorts of bacteria that normally live in the vagina, and they can easily get out of whack and cause these sort of problems. Has she spoken to her doctor about this before? I know this is a delicate subject to ask her about, but do you know whether it has always been like this 'down there,' or whether this has developed since she's become sexually active?
In any case, I'd encourage her to talk to her doctor. It could be one of many things, but it doesn't sound normal and healthy. Do not encourage her to douche or wash with strong soaps, as these can kill helpful bacteria in the vagina and will allow the harmful bacteria to thrive.
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I agree with Art that an exam is in order. It sounds to me like a balance issue. The Ph of the vagina is a very temperamental thing and over active glands or bacteria can throw it out of whack. It may be that she needs to use a certain type of product or douche, which is usually not recommended, but it could just be her body reacting to something strange. Just my two cents. It sounds to me like you love your FW and you just want to make sure shes ok, and thats never shallow.
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