NWR-The New SEX Thread!

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tessandnate09 Posts : 136 Registered: 4/21/08
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 12:32 PM Go to message in response to: TigerBride515

TigerBride515 wrote:I so want to try the roleplaying thing but I have no idea how to approach FH about it. How do you get started with out like formally talking about what you are going to do? I just feel like if we plan it out it's not going to be any fun. Do you know what I mean?



We had the same problem! Sometimes its just a thing on whim in the midst of fooling around when he will suggest something or I will. I get really Not in the the mood when things are planned so I am totally there with you. I think that if you make the planning fun, like sending each other little sexy texts message hints of where to meet you and what you'll be wearing or something it can make it a little less weird and planned. Although having a plan is important but for now I would say keep the playing in the bedroom, start small with just a little "your the student i'm the teacher" stuff. Talking about it formally just to bring the subject up might be a good idea though, just to make sure your both on the same page. I know FH really likes it when i'm In Charge...so to speak, however I spend a lot of my life being in charge of other people so I really like it when he is In Charge so we have to adjust our roles in that respect to the nights feelings.

Hope that helped....

The day he becomes my husband and I become his wife...September 5th 2009

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goldenLOVE Posts : 44 Registered: 9/8/06
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 2:22 PM Go to message in response to: tessandnate09

ryanne: I have to ditto everyone else's opinion... you should talk to a doctor. For him to be so young having this problem... it could be soemthing else... something treatable... but you'll never know if u never inquire about it. I hope it works out for you guys though...

ashleyanne: Maybe next time FH and I should try those shots of tequilla beforehand! lol Our anal adventures (lmao) have been pretty good though... but I can only imagine how much of a difference liquor would make. Thanx for the idea...lol And Im with u about the whole butt not working later on in life thingee... I think the same way... I dont know why. I guess it just seems logical in my head... so we refrain from making this a normal occurance. Its a every now and then... when Im extremely freaky situation. About sitting on his face... Ive only done it maybe twice. I liked it... Ive been a little cautious (for lack of a better word) both times. It isnt something Ive gotten used to... but if all else failed then Im sure Id sit and enjoy the ride...lol

tessa: FH and I developed pretty quickly in the sex department as well. I was a virgin when we started and he had only been with 1 other girl... but we're pros now...lol FH is also a little hesitant about the toys thats why we've never used any together... well, I havent used any seperately either although I have been extreeeeeeeemely curious to see what all the buzz is about...lol We role play... I like to put on something sexy with some heels and voila! Im a stripper...lol We never planned it... I just came out the bathroom dressed up one night... made him sit on the bed... turned on some music... told him someone ordered him a private dance... and u know what they say goes down in the VIP room of a strip club...lol That is as far as we've gone with role play... but we're into it.

Tiger: Im all for adding a little spice to your routine... nothing wrong with that. I suggest you start out like I did... just dress up and surprise him when you come out the bathroom... the first time I didnt dance... I just kinda model walked and then came up to him and kissed him. I asked him what he wanted... and just like that... he was up and ready...lol

As for me: WE GOT A 25 IN LAST NIGHT! WHOO HOO!! And its so ironic that the role playing subject came up because last night I worked in a brothel and he was a top paying customer...lol Great night... very great night...lol

"If I had to choose to love you or to breathe I would use my last breathe to say I love you."

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RanAway2Maine Posts : 2,359 Registered: 1/27/08
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 2:37 PM Go to message in response to: goldenLOVE

golden-I have to tell you that I thought you were my age until I saw your picture! You come across to me as an intelligent and warm lady. I love reading your posts! You crack me up sometimes!



Linda Jo and Dean-July 19, 2008


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goldenLOVE Posts : 44 Registered: 9/8/06
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 2:55 PM Go to message in response to: RanAway2Maine

RanAway2Maine wrote:golden-I
have to tell you that I thought you were my age until I saw your
picture! You come across to me as an intelligent and warm lady. I love
reading your posts! You crack me up sometimes!



Linda Jo and Dean-July 19, 2008





Im not sure how old u r but thanx...lol I get that alot... even once people meet me. Im flattered. But Im only 22... Im getting old though, Im turning 23 in February! lol

"If I had to choose to love you or to breathe I would use my last breathe to say I love you."

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RanAway2Maine Posts : 2,359 Registered: 1/27/08
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 3:07 PM Go to message in response to: goldenLOVE

golden-I'll be 42 in April and my sex life has never been better!



Linda Jo and Dean-July 19, 2008


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08divabride Posts : 831 Registered: 11/17/07
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 3:39 PM Go to message in response to: RanAway2Maine

Ladies blow some sex dust my way, I am not feeling it! My poor husband!

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TigerBride515 Posts : 482 Registered: 10/15/08
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Posted: Nov 17, 2008 3:53 PM Go to message in response to: 08divabride

Hang in there Diva! I felt that way in my 1st trimester but once you get past that, it's on!!! At least it was for me.

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goldenLOVE Posts : 44 Registered: 9/8/06
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 6:47 PM Go to message in response to: RanAway2Maine

LindoJo: I would not be able to guess ur age by your picture here. You're hot!! lol I want to be just as active with my hubby once I hit 42. Thats still young! Get it...lol

08diva: I was sick my ENTIRE pregnancy BOTH TIMES! I had morning sickness 24 hours a day... plus with my son I had kidney stones that I didnt know about so the pain was unbearable. The point is: I still found a way to be sexually aroused...lol Most women, dont get it that bad... as I did. So, I agree with Tiger... just hang in there. It will get better... your hubby wont be feeling too poor in a little while...
"If I had to choose to love you or to breathe I would use my last breathe to say I love you."

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BirdLover Posts : 2,834 Registered: 3/30/06
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Posted: Nov 17, 2008 8:39 PM Go to message in response to: goldenLOVE

We haven't had sex since I got pregnant :S My poor husband.
But he doesn't really bug me about it. Maybe he's just as scared/weirded out as me? Lol.

Lilypie Expecting a baby Ticker

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MrsWilliams2008 Posts : 1,431 Registered: 7/19/07
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Posted: Nov 17, 2008 9:22 PM Go to message in response to: BirdLover

Y'all I kept seeing all the replies to Ryanne and I was like "WTF are they talking about?? I don't have any problems" I had completely forgotten there is ANOTHER Ryanne on the board... who's a mighty cute girl, I'd say!

Ryanne, I'm certainly echoing the majority here. Your guy is only 23 and shouldn't be having these problems. Definitely talk to a doctor. Keep in mind, the situation may be embarassing for him, so try to continue to be understanding and non judgemental. I'm sure he's just as frustrated as you are.

To the person who had issues with her sweetie going down on her: think about it... if he's ASKING you if he can go down, then please believe he WANTS to do it. So keep that in mind, lay back, relax, and let him do his thing!

Here's my issue: I want to put on a "solo show" for my husband, but I'm completely embarassed by it. I also want to know what he thinks about toys... I don't even think he knows I have one (i have a bullet)--- and i use it often when I'm unable to get some right then and there. Suggestions??




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deansbride Posts : 220 Registered: 3/24/08
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Posted: Nov 17, 2008 10:17 PM Go to message in response to: MrsWilliams2008

OOOOOOOO can I play??

You guys are hilarious!

FH and I have sex 1-2 times per week. It sucks but I am student teaching so not always in the mood or have the energy after dealing with snotty 13 years olds all day, lol.

Sex is important to a relationship. Its sad but many men define how attractive they are based on how much we want them and in turn sex tells them how much we love them so that in itself is important. I know that FH feels that way sometimes.

What turns me on the most about FH is his lip rings mmmm, yummy! And his sexy eyes.

I prefer to be shaved and him trimmed, NO BUTT SEX! LOL

For the role playing thing I have two suggestions...
It may sound corny but find out what FH likes as far as silly costumes (french maid, nurse, cop, ect.) and that will hopefully lead to more roleplaying, ;)
or
Watch some porn with a plot and bring up the idea that way. For example there is a Pirates of the Carribean spoof and that could lead to some role playing fun if you know what I mean!

MrsW- maybe try buying him a toy or take a trip to your local porn store and see how he reacts-maybe he'll buy you a present! And then you can begin a building a "toy box" together.

OK, those of you who have lots of sex... how/why can you do it when you are super tired and cranky? I mean how can you get in the mood when all you wanna do is relax and have "me" time?

Thanks ladies that was fun!!

"When you are in Love you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams."

-Dr Seuss

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krista210 Posts : 450 Registered: 7/14/07
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 17, 2008 11:06 PM Go to message in response to: deansbride

It seems like we all have some pent up sexual energy/discussion desire! There are so many posts I'm going to have to start coming on here twice a day to keep up! Saturday night DH and I went to the Keg. It was pretty loud so we started talking dirty at the table just in normal voice. It was so sexy. I had this great idea to set a timer and not tell DH how long I had set it for. The idea was that we were not allowed to orgasm until the timer went off. ALL OF YOU NEED TO TRY THIS if you haven't!! It was SOOOO good. Haha. I forgot what time it was as well because I couldnt see a clock. We had to stop plenty of times because both of us almost came.

I can't wait until I get to have lots of honeymoon sex for a whole week. I haven't told DH this but I'm definitely going to keep a tally of how many times we do it that week so I can fill you ladies in ! We are leaving on Nov 30th for cancun and I can't wait. I work for a handmade cosmetics company that has lots of sensual massage bars and bath products so I'm going to be stocking up to make things super special. DH also mentioned that he really wants to order me a full body catsuit type outfit to bring with us!

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ryanne Posts : 1,042 Registered: 4/27/06
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 18, 2008 1:03 AM Go to message in response to: RanAway2Maine

Linda-- No, he doesn't smoke at all. As for stress...that could be a reason right at this moment since money is really tight and he's gotten laid off several times and brought back by his job...but the reason that I don't just blame it on that is because this isn't the first time this has happened.

However, after thinking about it a little bit...the past issues like this were during stressful points in his life...and it's gotten better since we got married. I dunno. I'll pay attention to what goes on with him for the next few months and try to see if there's a pattern going on. I won't bring it up unless I notice something, as I think that would make it worse. lol. Boys are so sensitive!

As for the role-playing thing...we've never done that, and although I think it would be fun, my hubby isn't an actor and would probably find it REALLY weird! lol.

 

 

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ryanne Posts : 1,042 Registered: 4/27/06
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 18, 2008 1:07 AM Go to message in response to: MrsWilliams2008

Y'all I kept seeing all the replies to Ryanne and I was like "WTF are they talking about?? I don't have any problems" I had completely forgotten there is ANOTHER Ryanne on the board... who's a mighty cute girl, I'd say!

Ryanne, I'm certainly echoing the majority here. Your guy is only 23 and shouldn't be having these problems. Definitely talk to a doctor. Keep in mind, the situation may be embarassing for him, so try to continue to be understanding and non judgemental. I'm sure he's just as frustrated as you are.

Haha! That's too funny! And thank you, BTW!

 

 

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mobride09 Posts : 519 Registered: 3/5/08
Re: NWR-The New SEX Thread!
Posted: Nov 18, 2008 3:56 AM Go to message in response to: MrsWilliams2008

MrsWilliams2008 wrote:
Y'all I kept seeing all the replies to Ryanne and I was like "WTF are they talking about?? I don't have any problems" I had completely forgotten there is ANOTHER Ryanne on the board... who's a mighty cute girl, I'd say!

LOL, I thought they were talking about you too!!

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