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krista210 Posts : 451 Registered: 7/14/07
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 2:43 AM Go to message in response to: cyadi83

It seems like there are lots of women here who say their FH/DHs like to give oral sex. So does mine but I don't really get it! DH and I have oral sex probably every time we have sex (sorry ladies, I cant call it kisses :P) but I dont really enjoy givng a blow job nor do I get turned on by it.

Whoever mentioned porn, I like porn every once in awhile. But for some reason, I have to get DH hard before we turn it on otherwise I get upset if I think it was the porn that got him aroused. Lame? Or does anybdy else do that?

Anyways, that's all for now! off to bed


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JackieB0129 Posts : 498 Registered: 4/24/07
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 8:24 AM Go to message in response to: krista210

I love the fact that DH likes his BJs but I don't really get anything out of them.  I don't think you're alone.  :)


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Lilmisssouthern... Posts : 658 Registered: 8/12/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 8:52 AM Go to message in response to: RanAway2Maine

lol ok so I admit reading this thread yesterday really made me want him even more... First we didn't have the baby last night he was with my ex and second of all i just wanted it... Now  like i previously said there is no lack in the desire so much as the being busy... Linda Jo I do agree it is ironic how we managed to have so much sex before we moved in together and our schedules havent changed just the fact that he is there  and I know that I can have it when I want it maybe thats why we slowed down?? Because its no longer something we have to drive 30 minutes to get? lol either way... I sent him a text from work yesterday stating that I wanted him and couldn't get it out of my head all through out the day I would text one sentece saying something I wanted to do to him or vice versa.... By the time he got home at 9pm he didn't care how tired he was... there was no preventing it and we went back to our mutiple times in one night ordeal I'd say four times to be close ;) ahh tahnk you Linda Jo For inspiring me!! lol

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Lilmisssouthern... Posts : 658 Registered: 8/12/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 9:02 AM Go to message in response to: cyadi83

cyadi!! lol thats too funny!!! You crack me up! but true...


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Ashleyanne2010 Posts : 447 Registered: 5/3/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 9:45 AM Go to message in response to: cyadi83

THE BUSH.

hahahaha, sounds like it should have a "dun dun dunnnnnn" after it! hahaha

ok, so that leads me to another question...

What are your (or his) personal preferences on grooming or does it matter to you at all???

 

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MrsPJM3 Posts : 129 Registered: 9/23/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 9:51 AM Go to message in response to: Ashleyanne2010

My FH also loves  his bjs. The first one I gave him was on a Thursday so when he wnats one he'll say I had a flashback to Thursday or It's Thursday today right. But he doesn't ask for it very often he feels it selfish to ask for it.  I love to do it for him. I agree I love the way his face looks and the feel of his body moving and toes curling. 

 

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Lagunabride09 Posts : 2 Registered: 5/5/07
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 10:21 AM Go to message in response to: cyadi83

Haha thanks Cyadi. That was all really helpful information!  I hadn't even thought about making sure the lingerie was easy on and easy off.  Thanks!

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Lilmisssouthern... Posts : 658 Registered: 8/12/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 10:30 AM Go to message in response to: Ashleyanne2010

Well I know that my FH likes it to be bare down below on me and I personally like it a lot better too!.. Now for his as long as he keeps it trimmed I am a happy camper no pun intended


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HillyBride92008 Posts : 207 Registered: 3/28/06
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 10:40 AM Go to message in response to: Lilmisssouthern...

DH likes no rug...but I prefer some coverage....we have yet to find a style that suits us both. It doesn't effect out sex life though!!!

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cyadi83 Posts : 68 Registered: 7/18/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 10:57 AM Go to message in response to: Lilmisssouthern...

We personally like it bare too. I usually shave but I'm going in for a brazilian before the wedding so EVERYTHING is bare not just the front part.

As for him...I personally don't mind if he trims shaves or just let's it be. He's only shaved it all off once. He never did it again. It was too funny to watch him squirm in his seat at a restaurant because it was itching so bad and he couldn't scratch in public. lol

Men are too funny.

Laguna Bride...

About the lingerie....Well FH and I were getting ready to try something "new" in bed. I don't know how many women on here have tried anal....for those who haven't or have never considered it, I hope you don't get grossed out.

So I went to a sex shop bought a bunch of lube specifically for that purpose ( I read labels), and bought myself this really expensive corsett and panty set (~$300!). Like I said before, my BFF tied the back in the dressing room. She was cheering me on about the anal thing...I was scared to death. I don't know why it never crossed my mind that I would struggle with the lingerie by myself.

So I was packed with lube and lingerie. I went home, put on a nice dress, cooked some crawfish (his fave), bought a bunch a beer (I'm a beer girl), broke out the candles, and waited for him to get home.

We had a fun dinner, largely in part because I drank a heck of a lot. I was so nervous about the anal I was trying to calm the nerves with alcoho. But he knew what was coming. So I asked him to wait in the bedroom while I "slipped into something more comfortable" (Classic line, right). Comfortable? Yeah right!.

I stumbled to the bathroom as best I could. It was so difficult to tie the back of the corset without being double jointed and being drunk didn't help much either. I decided to put the corset on backwards, tie it in the front, and then turn it around while on me (I hope you can picture this). Well, once I tied the back of the corset in the front it took me a good 15 minutes to turn it because it was so tight! All this while FH is yelling through the bathroom door "You okay in there? I'm ready!"

So I finally mangaed to turn the corset around but then I had to put my thigh highs on and I'm sure you ladies know that corsetts have the little clips that clip to the thigh highs. I was so drunk I couldn't see what I was doing. And do you know how hard it is to clip the clips on the back?

I was so drunk that I was stumbling all over the place in the tiny bathroom. I actually fell once and bruised my arm with the vanity.

So finally, everything is on (although, I don't think it looked the way it was supposed to). FH got tired of waiting for me so he went out to the porch for a cigarrette. I laid down on the bed to wait for him.....and that's the last thing I remember.

The next morning I woke up thinking that maybe we had had a wild night even if I didn't remember so I asked..."Honey, did you put it in my ass?"

Answer was no....I totally passed out.

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krista210 Posts : 451 Registered: 7/14/07
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 10:59 AM Go to message in response to: HillyBride92008

My DH likes it bare down there too. I sometimes do it as a surprise for him but ususally I have a landing strip or so (if I keep it up.... haha) because I think having no hair looks a bit pre-pubescent.

I must say though, DH has no hair at all, he gets rid of it all, which I like. So I guess I shouldnt have a double standard :)

Tonight starts our weekend alone together which I'm excited about. we're going to see a mens uni basketball game (which will likely get me aroused HAH) so hopefully sex will be great tonight. Tomorrow we are heading to the keg and then to the new 007 movie. I'm so excited! I hope everyone has great weekend sex!!


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Ashleyanne2010 Posts : 447 Registered: 5/3/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 11:12 AM Go to message in response to: cyadi83

cyadi- I can't even tell you how hard I am laughing (out loud in my office!) right now!!! Your play by play is totally priceless and I love the question the next morning!  ahahhaha 

FH says he doesn't have a preference about hair down there, but I don't know.  I keep it trim and on occassion leave a strip or even shave it all if I'm feelin up for it.  I've been entertaining the idea of the "take it all" wax (that's what they call it at my spa, lol)... any advice besides bringing something to clamp my jaw on? haha

And on FH... definitely definitely definitely trimmed.  The couple times he's shaved it all off I felt bad for him because it was itchy and because it doesn't really matter to me.  I just don't wanna see his wangs fur coat down there, hahaha


 

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Lilmisssouthern... Posts : 658 Registered: 8/12/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 11:25 AM Go to message in response to: cyadi83

Lol!! I just spit tea across the room from laughing so hard everyone at work is wondering whats so funny...

That is hilarious!! I have never tried although my ex made the great attempt one time using the excuse it was slipping... He never made it all the way because well I pulled away... FH thankfully refuses to even let that cross his mind...

I have this little scenario going through my head imaginig you in the bathroom trying to get the corset on while being drunk and scared shitless*once again no oun intended* and finally making out to the bed only to go to sleep... too cute and funny. Well at least you made the effort!!!


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MrsPJM3 Posts : 129 Registered: 9/23/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 12:01 PM Go to message in response to: Lilmisssouthern...

Cyadi~ I am rolling in the floor laughing. I teach 2nd grade and my kids all just looked at me like I'm crazy.  I love the play by play that is so something I would do.  The drunk trying to get ready not anal.. It's not for me ex tried it years ago and I freaked. Thankfully FH is totally against it to. 

I began a thread yesterday on the brazilian waxing. FH has said he loves it gone. I to kinda feel it looks like a kid.  I think I am gonna surprise him though and go for it. I figure heck I've had 2 kids surely I can handle it . Although I do plan to have a drink first :)   There was a great link in the wax thread about some cream to help with the pain.

You girls are so funny thanks for the friday laugh!!!


 

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Lilmisssouthern... Posts : 658 Registered: 8/12/08
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Posted: Nov 14, 2008 12:10 PM Go to message in response to: MrsPJM3

Ahh I am still giggling about Cyadi's post... It definitely made me laugh and cheered me up just imagining the scene... I have had some of the uncoordinated drunken moments like those although I never struggled to put a corset on yet... I go for the easy stuff... lol


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