Best Man...he's not coming!!...I feel sooooo bad for fh.. will this look OK
Posted: Mar 6, 2008 1:13 PM
OMG...fh's brother was to be his best man...and he called last night to say he can't make it...FH has been way excited to see his brother...And I feel sooo bad...my family is HUGE...I kinda hope now that those who haven't RSVP..aren't coming...I know that sounds mean..We have six rows of family...it is all of my family and his mother...That's it!!...Only his Mom is coming!!...his daughter is the ONLY!!! other family member that will be there for him...
Our wedding party has changed...all the time..first it was 4 females, 4 males..
As of Today: MOH, her fiance(groomsman)...these two are standing on my side. FH has his daughter on his side...she won't be on my side.
Originally we were having best man and groomsman standing at the front..and then fh and daughter walk up and then MOH goes and then me and my brother.
It is going to look kinda silly to have one guy standing up there on my side?!!...I think so!!
So, I think the best thing for us to do is: After Mom's are escorted, have fh and daughter walk up..she stays on fh side. Then MOH and groomsman walk down together and go stand on my side..then me and my brother walk in. After the ceremony, fh and I walk out, then groomsman can walk out with both his daughter and MOH. Sound good to you!!??
I know fh will not ask groomsman to be his best man..I wouldn't even mention it.
I am so sorry that this has happen...I thought I had it bad with all my issues...I couldn't image someone in my party calling 2 weeks before and cancel, I really hope your FH is ok...I wish you the best on your wedding day and would say just enjoy the moment ..if it's just you and FH it will still be a great day...